Written on 10/19/2011
Smoking is everywhere in Georgia. We were informed at the
orientation that it would be impossible to expect to find a smoke-free host
family. Even if the family members themselves don’t smoke, they said, guests
would be sure to smoke in the house. And Georgian houses always have guests
coming in and out all day long. Not to mention that people smoke everywhere,
hotels, restaurants, bars, internet cafes, in the car, taxi etc etc. I’ve yet
to see someone smoking on a bus or marshutka, but I feel that it may just be a
matter of time.
I discovered no less in my own home in my first few days
after I arrived. Neighbors were always coming in and out of our house, often
with a their cigarette butt hanging from their mouth.
But then, after a week of being at my house, my host father
announced to me that he had been smoke free for 4 days. My host mother was very
proud of him and it seemed to have given her the confidence to make her whole
house smoke free.
The next day our neighbor walked into the house again with
his cigarette in his mouth and she gave him a lecture about how she didn’t want
people smoking in her house. At first he looked at her like she was crazy,
perhaps it was the first time someone had ever asked him to step out to have
his cigarette. But she persisted, dropping my name in there, perhaps saying
that I didn’t want to be sucking in his second hand smoke. She turned to me and
said something in Georgian that I understood to mean “Isn’t that right?” and of
course I responded “Kho!” (yes in Georgian). He just looked at us, shook his
head and stepped out until he had finished his cigarette. But from then on,
whenever he came over with his cigarette, all my host mother had to say was no
smoking and he now steps out of the house without complaint. It’s good to see
that people are becoming aware of the smoking culture and that they have the
power to make changes for the better.
My family and relatives come from a smoking and drinking culture too. I do not allow smoking in my house nor allow alcohol. I tell them it is a waste of money and it kills you eventually.
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